It’s no secret that I believe everything happens for a reason. I’ve said it often enough! But sometimes it’s interesting to take a moment to look back and see what brought you to where you are, especially when you’re feeling frustrated or bemoaning the fact that it’s taken so long to get there!
The other day it occurred to me that as much as I wish I had reached my current point sooner, every experience I’ve had thus far has played a role in getting me here. I’m thinking specifically of my career, as this has long been an area in which I’ve struggled. Not knowing where I would end up, what I wanted to do long-term, caused many a moment of stress. Yet, looking back, I can see how every career idea I’ve had has led me to where I’ve finally ended up.
Let’s evaluate, shall we?
My first career aspiration, back in high school, was to be a teacher. Then I changed to social work, wanting to help impoverished areas. Then it was media: journalism and television. And throughout there has been an overabundance of retail experience. Of course we cannot forget the writing: the books and the websites. Now, the ultimate goal is to become a librarian, working with children.
Can you see how it has all come together?
Working with children, wanting to inspire and motivate them to read, is the teacher in me. I hope to help lower-income children, in particular, as they often lack the exposure to reading materials — there’s the social worker. Libraries today are carriers of information, entertainment, and technology — here comes the media. And working with people — helping them, guiding them, solving problems — well, that’s the retail aspect. Writing is simply a show of my love of the written word, and what better way to express this love than in a career that leaves me surrounded by books?
While I would love to have come to this conclusion earlier, I must admit that my experiences have provided just that: experience. They have shaped and molded me into the person I am today. And when I go to find my ideal job, each one will boost my resume, pushing me toward the position I’m meant to have. Everything happened for a reason.
The same can be said about other areas of my life, as well. I wouldn’t have my beautiful children if I hadn’t gotten married. I wouldn’t live where I live, making a difference in my community — a community I feel attached and committed to, where I feel I can thrive and help others. Every person I’ve met has affected my actions, my path. Every decision I’ve made has led me to where I am. And, while it hasn’t been easy, I’m happy with where I am. And I know I’m where I’m meant to be.
I still have a long way to go, but I know now that I’m finally heading in the right direction. The pieces are starting to fit together in a way that makes me feel complete.
How are your pieces coming together?